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d-man916
30-01-09, 09:47 AM
Just thought seeing as most people are in a relationship just like to talk about them
E.g. Long distance, Online, Open ones and normal ones
So first off is anyone in relationship and how long you been in one?
God-Like Phoenix
30-01-09, 10:38 AM
Currently I am not in a relationship...but I do have a large group of good friends in real life and online...so for now Im quite content with that :)
Kenji Icarus
30-01-09, 12:08 PM
My relationships never lasted long, maybe like 3 or 4 weeks. I've been in a relationship 4 years ago. Until today, I'm a single.
I haven't been on a relationship for more than a year.
I'm not a fan of long relationships it seems, longest one was 9 months or so.
Yeah I meet some people we might be involved but usually doesn't exist that atraction, interest towards each other but I blame myself on that subject, I enjoy being single unless i'm deeply in love with someone who I really want to be, not some crush towards someone.
Oh goodie... time to open the closet on this forum as well XD
I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend for five years, broke up two years ago, but we still live together. Haven't really been thinking of starting a new relationship until quite recently.
Frequently asked question # 1 - "ZOMG! R U A LESBIAN!?"
- Yes
Frequently asked question # 2 - "Why'd you break up?"
- It was time
Frequently asked question # 3 - "Why do you still live together?"
- Well, it sure as hell isn't just because she's got a lovely personality
Alonzo Orion
30-01-09, 09:05 PM
I'm sexually confused, I'd rather not be, been with both males and females since I hit 13, haven't been with anyone in a good while though, not particularly interested due to events of last relationship, prefer to dedicate time to my many friends who I do so care about.
d-man916
31-01-09, 09:43 AM
Oh goodie... time to open the closet on this forum as well XD
I was in a relationship with my ex girlfriend for five years, broke up two years ago, but we still live together. Haven't really been thinking of starting a new relationship until quite recently.
Frequently asked question # 1 - "ZOMG! R U A LESBIAN!?"
- Yes
Frequently asked question # 2 - "Why'd you break up?"
- It was time
Frequently asked question # 3 - "Why do you still live together?"
- Well, it sure as hell isn't just because she's got a lovely personality
Frequently asked question # 4 - Would you like to get back at some point?
Frequently asked question # 4 - Would you like to get back at some point?Not a chance.
For some time I was hoping we'd eventually get back together (if that's what you're asking). But now that I think of if, it'd probably kill me if we ever got back together.
d-man916
31-01-09, 10:46 PM
How come you got together first time round then?
Well five years IS a long time... a lot of things change in that time.
I still love her like a sister, and I love her sisters like they were my own. But I couldn't have a relationship with her ever again. It just wasn't meant to go on like that forever.
Sho-saka
31-01-09, 11:09 PM
Nope. Sorry. I'm fully single thank you very much.
silvertongue
01-02-09, 01:41 AM
I've been in a relationship for the 5 years with a guy! Yep i'm gay.
He's not a gamer though, he doesn't get it! He doesn't get how you can sit there for hours getting stuck into a game. More fool him, lol! Although i have to admit he doesn't mind the odd bit of Soul Calibu IV!
:)
My ex isn't a gamer either, but I got her interested in the video game industry.
She doesn't play games (except We Love Katamari, Me And My Katamari and Soul Calibur), but she loves to watch me play and she's really interested in all the upcoming games.
She even has a crush on Solid Snake and Dante.
Oh, but she doesn't like TRPGs. She thinks they're boring to watch.
Everyone has a crush on Dante :p
TRPGs are addictive as hell, but I guess that just watching someone play is boring as hell...
20 years I'm single. And yeah, I'm 20 lol
20 years I'm single. And yeah, I'm 20 lol
Lol why is that? aren't there many womens on France who like you? or your prefer being single? :D
*cough* I tought you were a girl ar first because of your avatar and name. Sorry. :p
but then I saw on KW that you are a guy. :D
Anyways, I enjoy being single unless I meet the 'right' women and fall in love with her, part-time relationships or crushes never work with me, it usually goes for a few weeks, months... maybe.
I'm 22 and, yeah... I'm 22...
I don't really like part-time relationships either. I'm too old for that stuff.
People on forums often believe I'm a girl (even when I have no avatar), I don't know why.
I, too, wait to find the "right" girl. Actually, I found her, but she didn't find me xD I'm one of these shy and boring boys, so I guess I'll keep waiting for some times...
People on forums often believe I'm a girl (even when I have no avatar), I don't know why.
I, too, wait to find the "right" girl. Actually, I found her, but she didn't find me xD I'm one of these shy and boring boys, so I guess I'll keep waiting for some times... Well lets face it, you love most (if not all) female characters, you use female avatars, I guess its natural people often mistaking you for a female.
Don't lose hope, i'm sure you will have enough time to be happy with someone you love and loves you in return. :)
Haha I don't find you boring, your also quite a nice guy so thats not also a problem.... about the shy part thats probably the worst, unless your pretty confident on yourself it will be kinda hard. :p
lol yeah, but there are female member with male avatar, and still they are not mistaken :p
I'm not confident, since I'm shy lol And I haven't a lot of things to say in conversations, plus in my university, I know nobody who really likes video games / animes / metal / my other interests. I have a lot of friends but... even if they are good friends, they're not the "very best friends" that you have when you have a lot of things in common with someone.
Kaka Extreme
01-02-09, 12:14 PM
yep never lose hope, as fate has planned everyone will have someone it is just when you will meet them... some times it can be months or years you just have to be patient that is all
When it comes to dating and especially hitting on someone, too much confidence is just too much. A lot of girls prefer a guy who's a bit humble and not overly sure of himself. It's annoying when someone comes up to you with the kinda "Of course I'm gonna get this chick!" attitude.
Kaka : Hopefully I'm very patient :p
Outi : I'm rather "of course I can't get this chick" ^^" But I'll just wait, and soon or late I might meet someone like me.
When it comes to dating and especially hitting on someone, too much confidence is just too much. A lot of girls prefer a guy who's a bit humble and not overly sure of himself. It's annoying when someone comes up to you with the kinda "Of course I'm gonna get this chick!" attitude.
I'm not that kinda guy, but I AM the kinda guy with the attitude "Why not try and fight for her? I won't lose anything in doing so" even if sometimes it doesn't work, there will be always a time where the work payed off.
I'm sure girls also like having someone fighting over them, if your too shy and can't make a move I doubt that person will easilly notice that your interested on him/her. :)
I'm rather "of course I can't get this chick" ^^" But I'll just wait, and soon or late I might meet someone like me. read what I said above, it never hurts to try when you see a person that is like you. :) But you'll have your chance sooner or later, best of luck. ^_^
silvertongue
01-02-09, 01:02 PM
In my opinion, whether you're gay, straight or bi too much confidence is a turn off.
I find being shy very endearing plus it kinda adds a certain kinda mystery to the shy person.
I'm shy, always have been. I can be in a room full of people but i'll just be quiet and take everything that's going on around me. It's just the way i am.
Birmingham Memorabilia show last year, i must've walked round the Koei booth about 4 times before i had the courage to go and talk to Leady or Chin and i don't know why because they are the most down to earth friendly guys that i have ever met!
So what i'm trying to say Shika is just because your shy it doesn't mean that you won't meet that special person because you will.
OMG, i sound like i've been watching Oprah! :)
Alonzo Orion
01-02-09, 04:03 PM
In my opinion, whether you're gay, straight or bi too much confidence is a turn off.
Gay pride stinks of too much confidence, it's driving me semi-insane due to the number of times I've argued there is no such thing as gay pride, it's just flamboyance and showing off, no achievement in being gay...
Gay pride stinks of too much confidence, it's driving me semi-insane due to the number of times I've argued there is no such thing as gay pride, it's just flamboyance and showing off, no achievement in being gay...Right on the money.
I've never seen a straight pride parade in my life... Why do we need a gay pride parade? It's not like homosexuality ever made my life any better.
Alonzo Orion
01-02-09, 06:55 PM
Thank you for being open minded.
silvertongue
01-02-09, 08:36 PM
Gay pride stinks of too much confidence, it's driving me semi-insane due to the number of times I've argued there is no such thing as gay pride, it's just flamboyance and showing off, no achievement in being gay...
I agree. Gay pride is just a way to make more money. It's all too commercial now anyway. It's not about the cause, its all about the money money money.
It's a shame really.
Isn't it a shame shame baby a shame shame? ,D
Isn't it a shame shame baby a shame shame? ,D
Sometimes I just don't get it...
I think that gay pride is kinda useless, because (not only but it's reason) there might be something like half of the crowd that is not concerned at all, but here just for the party.
In it for the fame fame baby the fame fame? XD
God-Like Phoenix
01-02-09, 08:48 PM
Wow, I didnt realise that there are quite a lot of members who are gay/bi/lesbian, its a great thing really :) Although Im not too sure about where I stand on the 'Gay Pride' thing... ^.^
Well if there is no such thing as "Straight Pride" then there should be no such thing as "Gay Pride". It's not like we're any better than anybody else... or if we are, it has nothing to do with who we're shagging.
Alonzo Orion
01-02-09, 09:00 PM
Of course there shouldn't be any hatred shown towards people due to orientation, but that also doesn't mean homosexuals and bisexuals are immune to all hatred simply because they like the same sex. I can't really explain that well what I'm trying to get across, let me give an example...
There's a guy at our school, he's gay and he blames all hatred towards him on his homosexuality, making it seem like the people who hate him are hating him for a bad reason where the reality of it is he is an attention seeker and has done many many bad things in order to get attention which I will not mention and that is why people in my school hate him so.
I want a 'I'm confused with my sexuality' pride parade, then people like myself can be confused together and wonder if we really DO like the person standing next to us or not.
legend fighter
01-02-09, 09:43 PM
Well i was in a relationship that went on a break yesty and then 7 hours after she said that she said she wanted me back. now i'm wondering what happened to change her mind so quickly.
silvertongue
01-02-09, 09:48 PM
I can't really explain that well what I'm trying to get across, let me give an example...
There's a guy at our school, he's gay and he blames all hatred towards him on his homosexuality, making it seem like the people who hate him are hating him for a bad reason where the reality of it is he is an attention seeker and has done many many bad things in order to get attention which I will not mention and that is why people in my school hate him so.
I want a 'I'm confused with my sexuality' pride parade, then people like myself can be confused together and wonder if we really DO like the person standing next to us or not.
Maybe he's having a really bad time dealing with being gay. People deal with it in different ways, some good and some not so good. Plus you don't know whats going on in his homelife, things could be really bad for him at home. Thats maybe why he acts the way he does. I'm not making excuses for him because obviously i don't know him. It's hard coming to terms with your sexuality when you not sure whats going on.
silvertongue
01-02-09, 09:50 PM
Well i was in a relationship that went on a break yesty and then 7 hours after she said that she said she wanted me back. now i'm wondering what happened to change her mind so quickly.
Maybe she thought about it afterwards and realised she'd made a mistake and didn't want a break at all.
Well i was in a relationship that went on a break yesty and then 7 hours after she said that she said she wanted me back. now i'm wondering what happened to change her mind so quickly.
She probably had some more time to think about the relationship and thought it would be better to be with you instead of being alone.
Alonzo Orion
01-02-09, 09:52 PM
Maybe he's having a really bad time dealing with being gay. People deal with it in different ways, some good and some not so good. Plus you don't know whats going on in his homelife, things could be really bad for him at home. Thats maybe why he acts the way he does. I'm not making excuses for him because obviously i don't know him. It's hard coming to terms with your sexuality when you not sure whats going on.
Trust me, he isn't, your right to say you don't know him, if I told you the things he does, you'd think real bad of him.
silvertongue
01-02-09, 10:17 PM
Trust me, he isn't, your right to say you don't know him, if I told you the things he does, you'd think real bad of him.
Fair enough :)
d-man916
01-02-09, 10:31 PM
Wow quite a convo I missed
lol
TBH its nice to see both gays and lesbians posting on here because its refreshing to hear what you lot have to say as well :)
silvertongue
01-02-09, 10:34 PM
Wow quite a convo I missed
lol
TBH its nice to see both gays and lesbians posting on here because its refreshing to hear what you lot have to say as well :)
What do you mean by 'you lot'? lol! Trust me it made me laugh :)))
gay, straight or bi we all have the same problems, lol!
You're right you did miss quite a convo!
:)
Alonzo Orion
01-02-09, 10:37 PM
I have a cold, only bisexual people can catch those.
d-man916
01-02-09, 10:41 PM
What do you mean by 'you lot'? lol! Trust me it made me laugh :)))
gay, straight or bi we all have the same problems, lol!
You're right you did miss quite a convo!
:)
I didn't mean anything by it :eek: Just saying you know because... meh I shouldnt bother because I probably will end up screwing up anyway :D You get the picture though
silvertongue
01-02-09, 10:45 PM
I didn't mean anything by it :eek: Just saying you know because... meh I shouldnt bother because I probably will end up screwing up anyway :D You get the picture though
I knew what you meant, that's why i put lol at the end of it! Trust me i'm not touchy like that. :)
d-man916
01-02-09, 11:05 PM
Thats good to know *phew*
Well I had a couple of relationships not long though not really that experienced
Though I did have one with a woman over the internet...
silvertongue
01-02-09, 11:10 PM
Thats good to know *phew*
Well I had a couple of relationships not long though not really that experienced
Though I did have one with a woman over the internet...
and how did that go?
d-man916
01-02-09, 11:29 PM
and how did that go?
It was going good until I lost contact as she wanted to live with her parents in germany >_<
Kaka Extreme
02-02-09, 12:12 AM
keep this in mind relationships are bad luck!
mine puts me in so much bad luck!!!
Hmm, well I never had a relationship but can't complain, I've just been good alone until now so is not hard. But still is cool to love and be loved..so ladies here I am..:p
Well i was in a relationship that went on a break yesty and then 7 hours after she said that she said she wanted me back. now i'm wondering what happened to change her mind so quickly.She realized that you're a complete mistour-casanova-stud-assmaster and she can't live without you?
God-Like Phoenix
02-02-09, 05:12 AM
LOL, when it comes to relationships...im pretty much always really shy, I guess I just dont want to be imposing on anyone, and I guess thats why I havent really been in a strong relationship :)
legend fighter
02-02-09, 09:10 PM
She realized that you're a complete mistour-casanova-stud-assmaster and she can't live without you?
Thats going a bit too far outi.
I'm not a casanova i just get lucky =)
Oh come on, I'm just teasing you ,D
After all, she wants you back. There's no harm done!
Gischie
03-02-09, 01:29 PM
keep this in mind relationships are bad luck!
mine puts me in so much bad luck!!!
awww don't say that Kaka!!! I think you pick the wrong one but you're young you can always try :p lol and as I know you, hope the guy got tons and tons of candy lol ^^
Personally, I think I found the one, now my only worry is how to keep that person always mine:(
"Always" is a bit too extreme if you ask me... I mean I was together with my ex for 5 YEARS, and until the very end I thought nothing could ever separate us, that no such reason even EXISTS why we would ever break up... And then in just one month everything changed.
Though it's true that we aren't completely separated... We still live together. We're still best friends, she's like a sister to me and her sisters are like my own sisters and that will probably never change. We forged a pretty hard bond during those 5 years.
But relationships - as in "I <3 you and you <3 me" - might not last forever no matter how strong they are. And you shouldn't get into a relationship thinking that "I'm gonna make this last forever".
It's better to think "This will last as long as it's meant to last". It could be a year, 5 years, 10 years, the rest of your life... But you can't MAKE it last any longer than it should last. If it ends, then it ends for a reason and it won't do any good going against that. If a relationship starts to fall apart, it won't get any better by forcing it to last longer. And there's no way to predict or prevent a break-up.
Gischie
03-02-09, 02:44 PM
"Always" is a bit too extreme if you ask me... I mean I was together with my ex for 5 YEARS, and until the very end I thought nothing could ever separate us, that no such reason even EXISTS why we would ever break up... And then in just one month everything changed.
Though it's true that we aren't completely separated... We still live together. We're still best friends, she's like a sister to me and her sisters are like my own sisters and that will probably never change. We forged a pretty hard bond during those 5 years.
But relationships - as in "I <3 you and you <3 me" - might not last forever no matter how strong they are. And you shouldn't get into a relationship thinking that "I'm gonna make this last forever".
It's better to think "This will last as long as it's meant to last". It could be a year, 5 years, 10 years, the rest of your life... But you can't MAKE it last any longer than it should last. If it ends, then it ends for a reason and it won't do any good going against that. If a relationship starts to fall apart, it won't get any better by forcing it to last longer. And there's no way to predict or prevent a break-up.
I mean tried with someone else
HebiYaro
03-02-09, 04:17 PM
I'm currently with someone, since 6 months now, and I think I have found the one I have waited for :
Even if it's short, 6 months only, we know each other since 3 years now and I think he was true all this time ^^
Gischie
03-02-09, 05:19 PM
tsssss, you always copy me, I know my bf 2 years as friend and you it's 3 O_o!!!! LOL
HebiYaro
03-02-09, 05:28 PM
Nooooo, you're wrong, YOU're the copycat here :p because I know him since 3 years, and you, only two :D
But I'm with him for only 6, but if I had known, I would have asked him sooner ^^
Gischie
03-02-09, 05:31 PM
Because I support you to do it after my bf made his declaration to me -_-, we all know who is the copycat LOL
Gischie
03-02-09, 05:50 PM
Don't be shocked Outi, Hebi is my wife lol :p
HebiYaro
03-02-09, 06:02 PM
Because I support you to do it after my bf made his declaration to me -_-, we all know who is the copycat LOL
It was more difficult for me because I'm shy ^^ but for sure, I would have ask him, with help, or not :p
Gischie
03-02-09, 06:05 PM
It was more difficult for me because I'm shy ^^ but for sure, I would have ask him, with help, or not :p
Oh well, that's life if he make you unhappy or get a tear in your cheek, I'll kill him for sure :mad:
(as I am a coward, I'll use my mother tactic, shout on him ^^)
Chi-Chi Blanche
08-02-09, 12:31 PM
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 and a half years now, and it's been great - no major fights or anything like that, and it's not like we're holding anything back from each other that could potentially cause a fight. I couldn't be happier :D
d-man916
09-02-09, 10:30 AM
Well that is nice to hear you are still going strong
You plan to marry?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 and a half years now, and it's been great - no major fights or anything like that, and it's not like we're holding anything back from each other that could potentially cause a fight. I couldn't be happier :DThank goodness for happy relationships .D
HebiYaro
09-02-09, 11:16 AM
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 and a half years now, and it's been great - no major fights or anything like that, and it's not like we're holding anything back from each other that could potentially cause a fight. I couldn't be happier :D
Well I hope to keep, like you, the same kind of relationship with my boyfriend over the years ^^
We too, don't hide anything from each other, and we never have fights. I think it's because when something is wrong, it is discussed immediatly.
Chi-Chi Blanche
15-02-09, 12:21 PM
good luck :D and I think that's the way to do it, and it's what we've been doing too (except it's more of an asap than immediate o.o some things are just harder to talk about than others and I chicken out sometimes).
and @d-man: yes *blush* :D
d-man916
18-02-09, 10:09 AM
ChiChi: Aww that is so cute :D
Well I hope everyone had a nice valentines day mine was ok for being single :)
I think it's important, when you're in a serious relationship, that your partner be your best friend.
Ideally, in my case, I would rather be good friends with someone first before "dating" or becoming a couple. I really don't enjoy dating strangers or random people I'm set up with, because people aren't really there true selves in such a situation, most of the time. That's mostly what I'm looking for in a potential boyfriend... a best friend, since I'm not really close to a whole lot of people to be honest.
And yes, I'm single. :P
But I don't really mind, I've got plenty of time ahead of me.
Gischie
19-02-09, 04:46 PM
I think it's important, when you're in a serious relationship, that your partner be your best friend.
Ideally, in my case, I would rather be good friends with someone first before "dating" or becoming a couple. I really don't enjoy dating strangers or random people I'm set up with, because people aren't really there true selves in such a situation, most of the time. That's mostly what I'm looking for in a potential boyfriend... a best friend, since I'm not really close to a whole lot of people to be honest.
And yes, I'm single. :P
But I don't really mind, I've got plenty of time ahead of me.
I think you're right, that's the best way because with my currently boyfriend, I know him as friend since 2 years then we were in couple and it's always easier and safer because you know the person and how he was when he wasnt with you also.
My ex was someone I met randomly but to be honest -_- that was the worst relationship I ever had in my life! but I regret nothing, that taughts me a lesson and make me grow up a lots more!
GanNing4Eva
09-03-09, 07:43 PM
well im taken in R/L
because i find having a relationship online is so...creepy you never know who your talking to!!
I'm with my girlfriend since 5 years and half. We live on the opposite sides of Italy (1107 km), I can see her once a month. Some day I'll move to Turin, I guess.
Gischie
09-03-09, 08:12 PM
I'm with my girlfriend since 5 years and half. We live on the opposite sides of Italy (1107 km), I can see her once a month. Some day I'll move to Turin, I guess.
Well I lived in Paris and my boyfriend at London but I moved to his town so everything is better except we are now both working, and we can only see each other in week ends but the most important thing for me it's if you love a person, the distance doesn't matter even the time away from the one you love. I said that but I cried everytime he wasn't around at the beginning but now I think I understand it ^^ lololololololol
(I'll end my life with him in a wheelchair anyway so LOL)
I'm with my girlfriend since 5 years and half. We live on the opposite sides of Italy (1107 km), I can see her once a month. Some day I'll move to Turin, I guess. Thats great that you both were able to maintain a relaitonship for almost 6 years together, you both live far from each other and get to see each other once a month.
As for, single for quite a while and probably be single until I found someone who I really like or love; which will probably take a while to happen or find the right person.
Alonzo Orion
09-03-09, 08:47 PM
well im taken in R/L
because i find having a relationship online is so...creepy you never know who your talking to!!
Couldn't agree more, not personal enough.
I'm with my girlfriend since 5 years and half. We live on the opposite sides of Italy (1107 km), I can see her once a month. Some day I'll move to Turin, I guess.
I threw unluck on myself with this post, F**K.
64crayons
13-03-09, 12:47 AM
not for a month or so, but i like my freind but i have this huge feeling she doesn't like me back,
im content though on staying freinds
@outi: you have the most drama in life that ive ever heard of, but you have a whateves attitude, gotta respect the whateves attitude
Gischie
23-03-09, 09:08 PM
friday's night = one year for my boyfriend and I ^^ even if there is an earthquake, I'll be there ^^
God-Like Phoenix
24-03-09, 08:59 AM
Aww...isnt that just so sweet ^^
Onislash
24-03-09, 09:27 AM
Careful what you wish for Gischie is all I will say.
Gischie
24-03-09, 05:51 PM
Thanks GLP ^^
:s what do you mean Onilash?
Leady FF ^^
24-03-09, 08:34 PM
Dont listen to them bebe ^^ We will be together ^^
Gischie
24-03-09, 10:38 PM
Don't worry Leady ff ^^, I always listen to my heart!
64crayons
31-03-09, 02:20 AM
haha leady ff, way to make me spill my drink lol
questionand its important!
so i like my freind, i don't think she likes me back, she is always saying "once my best freind and i started to date and it was the worst mistake of my life"
i know she isn't seeing anyone and i can't stop thinking a bout her, and i want to know your opinion
should i ask her ot?
zazugue
05-04-09, 10:22 AM
I am not sure to understand well only she says , but that I understand for the moment it's (I think): start a relationship with you would be a bad idea :/
Is already necessary to see how she reacted and is with you, after we can know yes or no is a good idea, but for the moment I say, don't say anything.
Afflicted for my English, I am not very good ^^'
so i like my freind, i don't think she likes me back, she is always saying "once my best freind and i started to date and it was the worst mistake of my life"There are good and bad relationships, just because it happened before doesn't mean it will happen again with you. But yeah what zazugue said is true.
If you tell her your feelings and prompt her how she feels; she will probably say she likes you..but as a friend only. Don't tell her how you feel no matter what, it will also help forget your feelings easilly if the worst happens; she starts to like other guy.
Try to suprise her and treat her well, while protecting and make her feel safe and happy with you ( try not to overdo it and treat her as if she was your Gf :p ). Hopefully she will notice you care about her more than just a friend and feelings might come naturally. ^_^
Funny, i'm going through a similar experience to this one at the momment. Haha :D
Good luck tough! :P
64crayons
05-04-09, 07:25 PM
hmmm yea thanks for the replies, its not easy going through it though :(
but your both right, and i doubt she would fall for another guy cuz she always says how stupid and chavanistic the guys at our school are, i always treat her well and protect her as i don't want her to get hurt, but im not crazy protective,
Matty1994
16-04-09, 11:25 AM
my last relation ship lasted 1 year and 11 months it ended because she moved to america so now i am single and have been since january
deepfriedpotatoes
20-04-09, 12:47 PM
I've been single for a long time.
i'm already 4years single. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend years ago and i'm kind of not yet moved on.. it's just i'm still waiting and i'm such a hopeless romantic. well, i still believe in destiny that someone really belongs to me. :D ^^
ebil shrimp
04-05-09, 11:33 AM
i'm in a relationship with an 'amateur model' and we have so far lasted 5 months, showing no signs of break up. i really hope we never do because to me she is the perfect girl. i had a crush on her for 3 years before now.
i'm luckier in love than some people
i'm already 4years single. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend years ago and i'm kind of not yet moved on.. it's just i'm still waiting and i'm such a hopeless romantic. well, i still believe in destiny that someone really belongs to me. :D ^^I was sitting and waiting for 2 years after I broke up with my EX... And experience tells me that you'll get a lot more lucky a lot sooner if you just start actively approaching people.
This might mean that you'll run into more people who're only looking for a one night stand, but somewhere out there is bound to be a guy who's looking for more than just that.
Personally I had this revelation a while ago and I'm quite happy making the most out of my single life at the moment. Obviously I wouldn't refuse if I met someone who wanted a serious relationship. But I'm not looking for TRUE LOVE right now.i'm in a relationship with an 'amateur model' and we have so far lasted 5 months, showing no signs of break up. i really hope we never do because to me she is the perfect girl. i had a crush on her for 3 years before now.
i'm luckier in love than some peopleJust remember not to brag about your girl being a model (amateur or not). I can tell you right now, nobody's gonna want to hear that. Not your friends or your girlfriend. You can trust me on this 'cause I'm a nude model myself and I would not want to hear my boyfriend/girlfriend talk about how lukcy s/he is to be dating a nude model.
That would result in me quitting the sex for a month.
Alonzo Orion
05-05-09, 11:14 AM
I just started going out with a boy I've known online for over 2 years now, it's a fairly distant relationship but I'm enjoying it because I only do see him from time to time (every 2 weeks to month, depends) so it makes the time we spend together all the more sweeter, hehe, we get on like a house on fire, he's very sweet and I'm moving closer to him later this year for university luckily so assuming we stay together which I do hope, we'll have a lot of time on our hands which can be spent together.
Matty1994
05-05-09, 01:03 PM
(whistle) :D sound like ull be having fun ;)
64crayons
07-05-09, 02:20 AM
Just remember not to brag about your girl being a model (amateur or not). I can tell you right now, nobody's gonna want to hear that. Not your friends or your girlfriend. You can trust me on this 'cause I'm a nude model myself and I would not want to hear my boyfriend/girlfriend talk about how lukcy s/he is to be dating a nude model.
That would result in me quitting the sex for a month.
true dat, but a month? harsh.....
true dat, but a month? harsh.....You know what's even more harsh?
Someone dating me just because I do nude modeling.
If a month is too much, that just shows you're only in it for the sex and that leads to you getting your ass dumped. There's plenty more fish in the sea and I don't have to put up with BS like that just because this ONE fish treats me as an object or a trophy.
I've been in a relationship already where I wasn't treated with the same respect that I treated my partner with. And I don't ever want to be in a relationship like that again.
ebil shrimp
10-05-09, 11:26 AM
Just remember not to brag about your girl being a model (amateur or not). I can tell you right now, nobody's gonna want to hear that. Not your friends or your girlfriend. You can trust me on this 'cause I'm a nude model myself and I would not want to hear my boyfriend/girlfriend talk about how lukcy s/he is to be dating a nude model.
That would result in me quitting the sex for a month.
one i wasn't trying to brag i was just mentioning it, personally i actualy hae the fact of that job.
2. i love her to bits and i have for longbefore she took that job, before i was going out with her
and 3, i meant that i was lucky inn the fat in finding someone that i love who loves me back for who i am. not becuase i'm going out with a model for the reason i already mentioned.
i know i'm touchy about that butit annoys when people assume thats what i'm doing.
i know i'm touchy about that butit annoys when people assume thats what i'm doing.Hey, it's all good. Take it easy.
I didn't say you've done anything yet.
Dynasty Heroes
25-07-09, 02:48 PM
Well i was with this guy about 2 weeks back and we were going out for over 6 weeks and after 6 weeks.
Well lets say he was meant to be getting married before he met me but something happened i don't know what and he said he wasn't ready for another reletionship after 6 weeks my heart still aches.
Mousou hat
25-07-09, 04:02 PM
Ive been single for around 10 years, not that i ever had a healthy relationship, sure ive loved people but never was loved back. I dont care about it anymore. There are more important things to my personal growth than peacock-cuckling around a woman. :)
Alonzo Orion
12-09-09, 05:52 PM
That sounds reasonable Mr. Hat.
I'm sure eventually you will find someone who does love you back.
longest relationship i was in was 3 years, after the break up i was so shocked and in denial that i became extremely depressed and lacked motivation to do anything, unfortunately i have lost respect for relationships because of what i endured (dont trust ANY of your friends) and i consider relationships a false leaning space
d-man916
12-10-09, 09:04 PM
longest relationship i was in was 3 years, after the break up i was so shocked and in denial that i became extremely depressed and lacked motivation to do anything, unfortunately i have lost respect for relationships because of what i endured (dont trust ANY of your friends) and i consider relationships a false leaning space
seems like you had some bad time with your last one in all honesty I dont think you should give up looking for another partner that is if you still want one as we do things and make mistakes and thats how we learn
No-Ne_Jessica
07-11-09, 09:41 AM
I've been in a relationship for.. four years, yep. It's never been a let down one bit.. okay, maybe once.. but it had to get fixed sooner or later! Yesss.. i love my Nintendo Wii ALOT! Nyaaa!~ <3
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As a side note.. You know how some people say "Your head is in the clouds"? (er something like that?) I love the feeling of being as light as a feather, makes me just wanna fly through sky! ^_^
Chaos92
07-11-09, 09:08 PM
a year ago i was asked out by a girl i knew at college, it was fine 4 the first few days until she got all needy and kept calling me every 5 mins. eventually 2 weeks later i broke it off. been single since. to put it bluntly i like my space.
Thadius
10-08-10, 10:39 AM
Thread Necromancy:
Been with my girlfriend 7 years since I was 18. Met in college got the courage to ask her out in the last year, then spent 5 months convincing her I was right for her instead of her american internet boyfriend. Been happy ever since.
louisshelton
14-12-10, 08:59 AM
currently i am in open relationship with some one..
i like to start live in relationship...
MichKat0
14-12-10, 07:01 PM
I ain't in a relationship, well not anymore anyways yet I still decided to keep the name MichKat0 for the good memories.
Yet me and my ex are like still good mates though...
My searching days are over ever since.
- Mich.
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